Saturday 12 January 2013

Ah! The joys of old friendships



A month ago I turned 40 and what a month its been! We had no plans of our own other than to spend Christmas Eve with Ouma and Oupa and some of Ouma’s family who would be in town. First my family arrived from Dubai to spend my 40th birthday with me, spoiling me with gifts galore, and a very special dinner. Then we spent 2 weeks together in the run-up to Christmas gallivanting all over the Garden Route like real tourists, doing so many fun and special things together. My brother Leon arrived about a week before Christmas with his girlfriend Kerry and they (together with Kerry’s parents) joined in the fun and gallivanting too. They were special times! They all left a day or so after Christmas, and we came home to continue life as ‘normal’.

The 2 weeks that followed have been far from quiet and boring. While we’ve tried to recuperate and rest we have found ourselves doing odds and ends that need doing and also spending time with family and friends who have visited from far and near. We really have been spoiled!

Leon and Kerry left here on the 27th to continue their holiday with friends in Cape Town. On 28 December they took a trip up to the top of Table Mountain in the cable car, excited to be at one of the 7 natural wonders of the world (Table Mountain has only recently been added to that list). And it was there that my little brother proposed to Kerry and they became engaged! You can’t begin to imagine how delighted we as a family are! Even the children have been asking if and when they plan to get married! I’m delighted that Kerry will be my new sister-in-law, she’s an awesome lady! Leon is an incredible guy and they make a gorgeous couple!

Just before New Year we spent a Sunday afternoon visiting with Ouma’s youngest sister and her husband at Victoria Bay where they spent over a month on holiday in their caravan. It was a grey, sunless day which meant there was ample parking and even a spot on the beach for us to sit (both of which we might not have found on a sunny day in season!). From up above the beach where the caravan park is, we had the most amazing view of the tiny bay and for the first time I was able to see how it all fits together. It was a lovely view – a great place to have a holiday. Uncle Piet braaied some burger patties while Aunty Betsie organised the hamburger rolls and all the extras (including Ouma’s yummy potato salad) – oh, what a delicious meal we enjoyed together! After lunch we relaxed together for a short while before we headed down to the beach for a dip with Oupa and Ouma. I didn’t swim (haven’t swum yet this season at all), I enjoyed watching Dieter and the boys on their boogie boards in the sea. Oupa had a dip with Jed before joining Ouma and Aimee in the tidal pool and taking a walk down to the furtherest point of the little bay. Just before we left to go back up to the caravan park some friends we’ve made at one of the local churches arrived for a swim and it was nice to see them and chat together a little. The younger children had a great time building sand castles together – I just love that about the beach, the children always have so much fun!

On New Year’s Day very special friends of ours from Pretoria came over and spent the day with us. Kevin and Caroline have been friends for years now and are like another set of parents to Dieter and I, we appreciate their friendship so much! It was such a treat to spend time with like-minded people and being able to chat freely about things we have in common! We saw them twice in the week that they were here, the 2nd time was on the beach in Great Brak near where they were staying with friends. The shark warnings were out and the kids only swam in the shallows, but after a couple of hours of being wind blown we sought refuge indoors! Shjoe, it was windy that day! We went back to the friends they were staying with and spent a few more hours relaxing together over frozen-yoghurt and ice-cream cones, in the process we made some new friends!

Chillaxing on Great Brak beach with Kevin and Caroline
 

Another friend and old colleague from Butterworth-days, Michelle was traveling back from Cape Town with her family after their holiday and wanted to overnight in George. That meant that we could spend an afternoon and evening together, which was wonderful! It was lovely to spend time with Michelle, her husband Chris and nearly-3-year-old son Kian! We had a nice dinner together at home of home-made chicken burgers with a lovely mushroom sauce which Michelle made for us. The last time we saw Michelle was in July when we passed through Port Alfred on our way to Butterworth, but we didn’t spend more than 10 minutes together. It was especially nice not to rush and squeeze a visit into an hour or two, we spent most of the afternoon and evening together and it was relaxing and fun. 

Kian, Chris and Michelle visiting us
 
Another friend who arrived in town very unexpectedly was Willem, an old friend from Pretoria days. Willem met with Dieter for a nice, long breakfast and then spent an hour or so with us at home when he dropped Dieter off afterwards. It was very good to see him again too!

We’ve been really blessed to spend time with ‘old friends’ after many years! It hasn’t been possible for us to get to Pretoria yet, so having friends from there come here has been especially wonderful! These really have been special times!

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