Tuesday 16 October 2012

Testing out the National Health system

Just before lunch last week Friday, the children were all playing outside in the garden. I now know that Aimee was on the trampoline and Ethan was on the ground, am sure Ryan and Jed were also playing the ball throwing game Ethan was part of. At some stage Aimee let out a shrill which became an extended, aggravated cry that just didn’t come to an end. It didn’t take long to realise that this was a tad more serious than usual! She didn’t want to be with anyone else except ‘Mommy’, but even holding her tight on my lap didn’t ease the crying!

It turns out that, from the ground, Ethan pulled her arm and pulled it too hard! I’m not one who runs off to the doctor very easily, but it was one of those situations where I knew we should have it ‘checked out’ and so after lunch Dieter dropped Aimee and I off at the local hospital. (The hospital here isn’t as close to our house as it was in Larnaca, but it’s a 5-minute drive – much closer than others around the country need to drive to their local hospital! We’re blessed!)

It was just after 2pm and the hospital could have been mistaken for a morge! It was quiet! Those passages and waiting areas that buzz for hours on end in the mornings were empty and everything echoed! We didn’t know it, but the new Emergency wing of the hospital had only been opened 4 days before and we were some of its first visitors! Dieter walked with us to the waiting area, through the double security-doors. Between the doors is a metal-detector-thingy that buzzed as we walked through and, having been well trained in our travels, we stopped dead in our tracks preparing to do a re-run or a body-search. The security guard was hammering nervously on the button which keeps the doors open, almost begging us to keep moving and get through the second set of doors. Obviously neither the doors nor the detector are working properly!!!

Our visit to the hospital lasted 3 hours in total and was rather uneventful. There were only about 8 other ‘cases’ waiting around us, most with a guest or family entourage! There was only one other ‘white’ couple in the waiting area and for a moment I felt as if I was at Larnaca General all over again. I was the ‘outsider’, the ‘Xenos’ …… two ladies nearby were having a rather loud conversation in Xhosa and I couldn’t understand a word. I spent a chunk of time in the waiting areas in Larnaca surround by locals who were talking demonstratively and I couldn’t understand any of it! The only difference is that in Larnaca, I looked local! Here I am local and I felt like a visitor! It was a private moment. I felt safe, comfortable and quite welcome. It seems that the local ‘coloured’ people  mostly speak Afrikaans, a language I can fluently speak and understand, and I was soon able to understand a lot of other conversations going on around me!

Our 3 hours was spent waiting mostly. But in between all the waiting we did see a nurse who documented all Aimee’s medical basics, a clerk who opened a hospital file for her, a young doctor who was very kind and gentle with Aimee, a radiologist who took some x-rays of both her elbows, a 2nd doctor for a more expert opinion and a pharmacist.

The verdict was that because the plates around the elbow are still ‘open’ in children of Aimee’s age, it is difficult to know whether there has been any damage. There was however a grey ‘shadow’ around the elbow which isn’t a good sign, so the doctor put some plaster of paris under her arm and elbow for support and strapped it up so she could protect it and rest it over the weekend in a sling. She was still in some pain and the paracetemol was a great help for the first night. 

By the time this photo was taken Aimee didn't feel like smiling  and just wanted to go home!


Aimee has slept in our room on a mattress for the last 3 nights. On Saturday she lazed around most of the day, often watching something on telly or being read to. She wasn’t too thrilled with her new arm accessory and didn’t even want to go to church because she couldn’t put pretty clothes on! But, on Sunday morning I washed her hair, showered most of her chest and lower body and put a pretty denim dress over her t-shirt which she wore with her stockings, boots and poncho from Von. She felt great and was ready to go anywhere!

Today, after 3 days in a sling, Ryan and I took Aimee back to the hospital to see an orthopaedic specialist and possibly have new x-rays taken to make sure about her treatment. Today we spent just over 2 hours at the hospital. We spent over an hour waiting in one of those buzzing areas for Aimee’s file only to reach the front of the que and be told that we first need an appointment at the Orthopaedic department. We walked over to that wing of the hospital and up to the first floor to make the appointment, and then went back to get the file. Then we spent another 50 minutes waiting to see the doctor. There were quite a few people waiting ever so patiently and I was surprised when Aimee’s name was called. The doctor took a quick look at the xrays and couldn’t see any need to have new ones made. He took the sling off Aimee’s arm and had her move it – it was so obviously much less painful. She could even bend it to touch her nose! It was a little painful, so he’s made a soft sling for her to keep her arm rested in for a few more days until she feels better. No serious break or injury, it will obviously heal with some rest. Now that’s a great relief!!

It was only this afternoon that I thought of how peacefully everyone sits at the different hospital departments. In Cyprus there were always people trying to jump the que or ease their way into the doctor’s office for preferential treatment. Here there was none of that. Everyone was so kind and caring and helpful.

Aimee’s doing much better tonight, using her arm a lot more and its very obvious that its healing nicely! Never a dull moment! Another story for our adventure book!

PS:  Poor Ethan was devastated that he had hurt his little sister! He couldn’t stop apologising when we returned from the hospital on Friday evening with a temporary cast and sling. He loves his little sister so very much!

Sunday 14 October 2012

Aimee turns 4

I can't believe 4 years have passed since our little girl was born just before 2pm at Larnaca General Hospital! 4 years of tippee-toe dancing, singing, giggling, arms-in-the-air dancing, tree-climbing, adrenalin pumping adventure, cuddles and kisses galore! 

There were 4 special friends Aimee wanted to share her special day with and since they follow different schooling schedules we were able to spend the whole day celebrating!

Not long after breakfast we managed to get ourselves organised and Aimee sat down to open her gifts. She ripped open paper and quickly opened one after the other .... I get the feeling it doesn't matter how many gifts there or were, or what they were, she loved opening them just as much.

Here are some photos to prove it all really happened!

Some bubble bath and knitted clothes for her 'bolly-doll'

A South African chocolate from Jed .... PS: I love you! (and he really does!)


A crocheted bag that Jed made for Aimee - a real labour of love!

A huge bottle of bubbles - look at that smile!


Some sidewalk chalk made with love by Daddy and Mommy

Jed reading Nana's card to Aimee (she LOVES reading cards!)

A DVD and colouring pack sent with lots of love from Nana in England
There were also other little cards and monetary gifts, and even a slab of chocolate from the neighbours in our road - she's very much loved!!

Adine and Zian are homeschooled and, after a brief chat with their principal, they were able to
come over at around 11am and spend a few hours playing and celebrating with Aimee.

So happy to be with her friends - here she is with Adine

Blowing out her FOUR candles!

Cutting her cake.
She requested a cake like this  months ago and has repeated her request often, 
so she was thrilled when she finally saw it!

Ryan, Zian and Jed enjoying the party-fare!


Aimee and Ethan with Adine
The celebrations continued until bedtime!
As the one group of party guests walked out, the next just about walked in!
In the afternoon, after their school day had finished, Aleeyah and Lizaan came to celebrate too!


The second half of the cake, saved for the afternoon guests - meant another round of harmonious singing and candle blowing festivities!

Aimee and Alyeeha

Lizaan and Aimee   

Aimee with the beautiful card Grampa sent her from Taiwan! It came a few days after her birthday and ensured the festivities continued for a little while longer!)
That night, after Ouma had returned from work, we had a lovely dinner together with Oupa and Ouma. Aimee's request had been for 'meat and pasta', so I made a spaghetti bolognaise! Aimee was so exhausted from the day's activities that she could eat much and just wanted to sleep, so she (and Ethan too!) went to bed a tad earlier than usual! That spaghetti bolognaise tasted soooo yummy the next day!

Can't believe my little girl is now 4 .... she is so cute, too clever and very eager!
Every day is an adventure with her and I'm looking so forward to the year ahead!

Wednesday 10 October 2012

Life Happens

We've been quiet, but don't think that means nothing is happening! Life is happening - and every day is chokka with activity, thanks to our 4 lively children.

Here are some pics of our first fishing expedition .... didn't catch anything other than a slight tan ... but had loads of fun!





Dieter is another year older - we didn't have room on the cake to put all the candles on! LOL! He really enjoyed his day, which was quiet and spent relaxing at home. He asked for the family favourite  Beetroot and Chocolate cake and we ate it over a few tea-times and celebrated in style! In the evening we had an Ostrich-goulash potjie meal with special friends. It was a perfect day!


 The little ones spend lots of time dressing up and playing imaginative games .... the latest pics are of Ethan and Aimee putting out fires near the firepit .... they had sooo much fun!